Kelly
Sophisticated and charming before it was cool. Kelly was of average height, 5’6”. Beautiful, full head of flowing brown curls. She had a round face and a beautiful smile with full lips, almost too big for her face. She was raised to be a proper young lady, always pulled together and dressed sharply. Kelly came to work for me as a high-school intern. Although she fit right into our group of 10 ladies at the bank, she wouldn’t stay long. She had bigger plans for her life after high school. Kelly dressed like a businesswoman even though she was only in high school. Her father an insurance agent, her mother a Realtor, witnessing everyday, the life she wanted.
Kelly taught me all about being proper. Well mannered and very astute. She knew when to stand, when to sit and when to excuse herself. Timing is such an art to master, especially in social situations. I struggle with making people feel comfortable. Sometimes I leave too soon. Other times, I feel like I overstay my welcome. Of course, each situation is different. Why are you there? What is the purpose? But somehow, I always find myself wondering if they were offended, I left so soon. I do not believe in what some call the Irish Exit, sneaking out without saying goodbye. Kelly, even so young, gave off that air of just knowing.
It is funny what you can observe from others if you just stay still and silent, long enough to learn. Wherever Kelly is today, I am sure she is a treat to be around in all her majesty. Kelly was just one of many young people that I embrace throughout my career. The young can truly teach you many lessons. Especially now with social media and technology, the young are quick to adapt. They are ions ahead in the changing landscape of technology. I have seem them evolve from Myspace, to Vines, to Musically, to Snapchat and Tiktok. They embrace what their parents and grandparents do not. They need to find their sacred space to explore their youth and I learn each day from their escapades.
Fabulous, Fun, and Frustrating, People 
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